Expert Care, Personalized Therapy – Led by Your Trusted Therapist and Practice Owner.

Hi, I'm Ester Buchnik, .
Your Marriage and Family Therapist.

I’m a Marriage & Family Therapist Registered Intern and the founder of Neshama soul therapy, a private practice in Hollywood, Florida, specializing in couples therapy and sexual dysfunction recovery. With a deep passion for helping couples navigate challenges, I focus on providing effective, compassionate support to modern-day couples who are committed to strengthening their marriage.

Over the years, I’ve dedicated thousands of hours to helping couples transform their relationships. Through this experience, I developed the Mindful Dating for Marriage Counseling Program and Online Podcasts designed specifically for those navigating the aftermath of trauma to be mindful in their journey and get into a healthy relationship. These resources are built to lean about yourself, heal yourself, be mindful with dating intentions and learn how to navigate the healing journey to create lasting change.

You don't have to face this journey by yourself.

Now Is The Moment To Take That Step You've Always Dreamed Of.

If you are in a relationship, but things feel like they’re slipping through your fingers”? Is Communication a struggle, and you’re not feeling loved or understood the way you need to be? Instead of growing closer, it feels like you and your partner are drifting further apart?

You’ve tried different approaches, maybe even seeking advice from friends, family, or self-help books, but nothing seems to fit your unique situation. What you need is personalized guidance from a skilled couples therapist in Florida—someone who can provide the right tools and strategies to help you make lasting changes. I’m here to help you get your relationship back on track and move toward the connection you’ve been longing for.

You’re stronger than you realize, but like so many others, you could use some support to make your relationship work. What you need is someone who can guide you through the process and help you find your way.

I help my clients gain a deeper understanding of their relationships, much like a photographer adjusting their lens to capture the clearest picture. By zooming in on the details and stepping back to see the bigger picture, we uncover what's really going on. Then, like a skilled technician, I provide the tools for healthier communication and help couples get to the heart of their issues.

Through my signature programs, I equip couples with the tools to rebuild trust, reconnect emotionally, and heal from the impact of infidelity—while customizing each program to fit the unique needs of every couple.

You’re exactly where you need to be.

Here’s What Can Make a Difference:

I do this because healthy relationships are the foundation for true happiness

You Need a Plan!

Whether you're healing from infidelity, improving communication, or reigniting desire, a structured approach is essential. Simply venting or talking in circles won’t create lasting change. A clear, step-by-step plan is what you need to truly move forward.

Effective Tools for Real Results

My program is built on proven, research-backed tools designed to get you the results you’re looking for. You’ll not only learn these techniques but also practice them in each session, ensuring you stay on track and make real progress toward your goals, faster and more effectively.

A Couples Therapist Who Knows Exactly How to Help

When it comes to navigating relationship challenges, particularly infidelity recovery, working with a skilled specialist makes all the difference. A therapist with experience in couples therapy and affair recovery can guide you through the complexities, helping you avoid common pitfalls and achieve successful, lasting results. Don’t settle for anything less than expert care to heal and strengthen your relationship.

I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in the state of Florida, with Certification from the Gottman Method Institute to provide tools for reconnection, incorporating healthy boundaries, reconnection, growing empathy, and improving sexual satisfaction for couples in sexless relationships.

I practice EMDR as a Registered Marriage & Family Therapist Intern (#IMT4064), to help clients heal from sexual Trauma, Incest, Molestation, and Physical violence heal. Having a certificate to practice Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, My ability to help you learn how to emotionally self regulate, redirect difficult feelings surrounding triggers or trauma, and teaching you mindfulness skills will allow you to have a sense of peace and restore balance in your life. My Professional credentials are recognized by the Florida Department of Health.

Credentials

Loved every moment

As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Intern, I have received comprehensive training in couples therapy, but my commitment to professional growth doesn’t stop there. I am dedicated to continuously advancing my education and staying informed about the latest, evidence-based methods for working with relationships and marriages.

I've had the privilege of learning from some of the most respected experts in the field, including National University, Las Angelos, M.A. Marriage & Family Therapy, Hunter College, New York, NY, BA, Psychology & Sociology, Gottman Method Therapy Institute, Completed Level 1 & 2 Training, EMDR Trauma Treatment, (Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing), and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy. This ongoing education ensures that when we work together, I bring you the most up-to-date research and effective tools to help your relationship thrive.

I've been up to in the past decade

The Serious Stuff

Sharing is caring

My most recent and impactful project is, a recovery coaching program designed specifically for couples navigating sexless relationships, sexual addictions, sexual dysfunction and distance.

Drawing from hours spent helping couples heal and rebuild after betrayal, I developed this step-by-step program to guide couples from crisis to reconnection. The program is structured to help partners restore trust and love, ultimately leading to a stronger, healthier relationship.

Educating

As part of my mission to reach and support as many couples as possible, I host the popular podcast.

The goal of the podcast is to provide couples with practical insights and actionable advice for strengthening their relationships. Each episode dives into a specific relationship topic, offering listeners valuable tips, strategies, and ideas they can apply to their own lives.

Podcasting

I'm deeply passionate about sharing practical tips and insights with as many couples as possible. This passion fuels my work through public speaking, interviews, webinars, blogging, and other platforms, all aimed at reaching and supporting couples on their journey to stronger relationships.

Speaking +
Media

Putting myself out there…

So fulfilled :)

Testimonials

- Denisse G.

“Your Program has given us a Lifeline”

My partner and I have been fortunate to work with Ester and I can't express how grateful we are for her expertise and support.Ester is truly a solution-oriented therapist who excels in providing actionable solutions to the challenges you are facing. From the very beginning, she created a safe and open environment where we felt comfortable discussing our concerns. She has a remarkable ability to help you pinpoint the root cause of any problem and guide you towards effective solutions. Her empathy and compassion has been a source of comfort and encouragement throughout our journey.Thanks to Ester, we've made significant progress in our relationship, and we owe much of that growth to her guidance and expertise!

“I don’t think we could have made it through this without your program.”

Be Hopeful

Ms. Buchnik was a blessing to me when I was at my lowest in life. She helped me get back to some sort of normalcy after dealing with a big change in my life. For that, I am grateful.

- Antione F.

- Alexandra U

"Thank you, from the depths of both our hearts."

Best knowledge and expertise and truly the best professional. Unmatched professionalism

BY THE NUMBERS

HOW MANY COUPLES I SEE IN A WEEK

10

THIS YEAR I STARTED PRACTICING

2020

HOURS I’VE SPENT HELPING COUPLES

500+

LET’S GET STARTED

I’d like to make sure we’re a good fit, so it’s important for me to understand your story. I want to learn about what you need right now to heal your relationship, and how I can best support you in getting there.